Paul tells us in the Book of Acts that “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” I believe that, but there are exceptions. My father’s annual acceptance of a gift of chocolate that he didn’t like was a case of receiving as more blessed than giving, but what of the natural ebb and flow of life. Is it more blessed give than to take? Do we expect ourselves to be givers not takers?
Our language often is an indicator; idioms and common phrases can point to our leaning. I ran a comparison of the two and found virtual equal numbers of each. While my preference runs to both, you will have to decide on which side of the ledger you find yourself.
Note: This is not a test. If you want to keep score, go for it but it won’t help.
Give | Or | Take |
Give a hoot | Or | Take it or leave it |
Give a Little Bit | Or | Take it all |
Give a man a fish… | Or | Take fish oil before bed |
Give advice | Or | Take heed |
Give an inch | Or | Take a mile |
Give back | Or | Take |
Give birth | Or | Take life |
Give blood | Or | Take two aspirin, get plenty of… |
Give credit where credit is due | Or | Take a bow |
Give directions | Or | Take me home, country roads… |
Give ‘em a break | Or | Take it to the rim |
Give ‘em a hard time | Or | Take things in stride |
Give ‘em hell, Harry | Or | Take it to the limit |
Give ‘em the boot | Or | Take a hike |
Give God the glory, glory | Or | Take life in your own hands |
Give him a fighting chance | Or | Take him down |
Give in, give up | Or | Take charge, America |
Give it one more day | Or | Take tomorrow off |
Give it to me one more time | Or | Take It All Away |
Give it your all | Or | Take it easy |
Give love a chance | Or | Take a risk |
Give me a job | Or | Take This Job and Shove It |
Give me lovin’ baby, one more time | Or | Take a Chance on Me |
Give me One Reason | Or | Take it all in |
Give me your tired, your poor… | Or | Take my wife … please |
Give notice | Or | Take flight |
Give Peace a Chance | Or | Take it in pieces |
Give thanks | Or | Take pleasure |
Give the devil his due | Or | Take It to the Lord in Prayer |
Give the dog a bone | Or | Take a doggy bag home |
Give the gift that keeps on giving | Or | Take antibiotics |
Give them something to talk about | Or | Take counsel |
Give up the ghost | Or | Take it one day at a time |
Give us this day our daily bread | Or | Take it to the bank |
Give way | Or | Take offense |
Give In to the Night | Or | Take it to another level |
Give zombies the vote | Or | Take his head off |
I hope I was able to give you some Friday-Lite reading, and you didn’t take me too seriously. You certainly shouldn’t take me more seriously than I take myself.
A last thought, “Give the future its moment to arrive and take nothing for granted in the present.” ~ Michael Francis Lee, (Muse, 1943 - )
Now that is serious.
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